Buy a house....

During my leave, I was thinking back on my decision on buying a house. I didn’t realise the main reason why I want to buy the house in the first place. Eventually I want to buy the house is to help out my brother and my mom. I forget how it would impact me after that.

I was stucked with all the option I have in mind for which I can’t seams confident on choosing it. Then I rang up my guy fren, rizz whom give me a good feedback. As per him I need to see deeply in myself and ask myself do I really want this. He made me more confident in making my decision.

I’m scared of not able to handle the impact later on as buying a house is like making a commitment of brings to an end. Gosh… it’s never been easy for me to do all this.

It’s a good invest on buying a house when you are single, but hey people out there who are planning to do as I do, think back and see if you have extra cash out of buying the house better keep it as you would be needing it when you are ready to get married. Helping out family will always comes first on our priority list but then guys remember you have a life to carry on with your own family in the future.

If you are single and left with no saving at the end of the month and have difficulties in making payments every end of the month, so why should you torture yourself? Once mistake is made, I don’t think we can easily erase it. And yes it’s true, if we never make the mistake we will never learn and try to improve and try to avoid from making the same mistake.

Buying a house is the last thing I want to do in my list after I have achieve everything, well almost everything.

I use to remember before, at my age of 20 I plan I want to buy a car and finish paying it by 2008 and it did happen. I’m glad I did plan it before. Having good career, enjoy my life and want to improve my family’s way of living is the other items on my list that I want to fulfil. I’m not a superwomen but hey I’m trying to make it happen and yes partly I made it, I’m proud of myself.

Therefore I have decide on not buying the house for now and I think 5 years from now, then I will open back the chapter of buying house and see back to the past years, and ask a question to myself, did I make the right decision before? :-)